Well are you in a relationship with someone? Because I can tell you that the guy is going to hint at it once you get really comfortable with each other. It’s not really about how to approach sex, it sort of just comes with time. There will be lead ups to sex and most of that just happens naturally. I think once you are in a relationship and you feel comfortable enough to talk about sex, make sure to tell him your feelings on the subject. You know, whether you want to have sex or not, and when you think you should start having sex, or tell him that you need to wait until you’re ready. And don’t you dare do it before you are ready, because you will most certainly regret that decision for the rest of your life.